DISQUS

Aronil: You Hold, I Hold, We See

  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality " rel="nofollow">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...changed by Blog Templates&lt;/a&gt;
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality " rel="nofollow">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...changed by Blog Templates&lt;/a&gt;
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality " rel="nofollow">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...changed by Blog Templates&lt;/a&gt;
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality " rel="nofollow">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...changed by Blog Templates&lt;/a&gt;
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality " rel="nofollow">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...changed by Blog Templates&lt;/a&gt;
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality " rel="nofollow">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...changed by Blog Templates&lt;/a&gt;
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" " rel="nofollow">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow"&gt;What do we mean to each other?&lt;/a&gt;
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" " rel="nofollow">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow"&gt;What do we mean to each other?&lt;/a&gt;
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" " rel="nofollow">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow"&gt;What do we mean to each other?&lt;/a&gt;
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" " rel="nofollow">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow"&gt;What do we mean to each other?&lt;/a&gt;
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" " rel="nofollow">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow"&gt;What do we mean to each other?&lt;/a&gt;
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" " rel="nofollow">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow"&gt;What do we mean to each other?&lt;/a&gt;
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life. 3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/2928148...rel="nofollow">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality ">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality ">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality " target="_blank">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality " target="_blank">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality " target="_blank">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality " target="_blank">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.


    3POINT8s last blog post..<a href="Personality " target="_blank">http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/3point8/~3/292814818/personality-changed-by-blog-templates.html">Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement... Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour. Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent. Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others. Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298" rel="nofollow">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What ">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What ">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...


    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.



    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.



    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.



    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Yeah i suppose it would be, just depends how comfortable we are with it.
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Heh agree. if i recall i think somewhere towards the east of our country one state actually arrested a couple for holding hands. Oh my! :P
  • 3POINT8 · 1 year ago
    I suppose its ok kua. As long as they tell their partner in the end of the day that their partner is still the most important person here in their life.

    3POINT8s last blog post..Personality changed by Blog Templates
  • Nicholas.C · 1 year ago
    In the name of making a moot point to a moot arguement...

    Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.

    Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.

    Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.

    Nicholas.Cs last blog post..What do we mean to each other?
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    Yeah i suppose it would be, just depends how comfortable we are with it.
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    Heh agree. if i recall i think somewhere towards the east of our country one state actually arrested a couple for holding hands. Oh my! :P
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before " rel="nofollow">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...It Dims&lt;/a&gt;
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before " rel="nofollow">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...It Dims&lt;/a&gt;
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before " rel="nofollow">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...It Dims&lt;/a&gt;
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before " rel="nofollow">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...It Dims&lt;/a&gt;
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before " rel="nofollow">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...It Dims&lt;/a&gt;
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before " rel="nofollow">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...It Dims&lt;/a&gt;
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I " rel="nofollow">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!&lt;/a&gt;
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I " rel="nofollow">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!&lt;/a&gt;
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I " rel="nofollow">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!&lt;/a&gt;
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I " rel="nofollow">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!&lt;/a&gt;
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I " rel="nofollow">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!&lt;/a&gt;
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I " rel="nofollow">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!&lt;/a&gt;
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All " rel="nofollow">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...guys are full of shit&lt;/a&gt;
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All " rel="nofollow">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...guys are full of shit&lt;/a&gt;
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All " rel="nofollow">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...guys are full of shit&lt;/a&gt;
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All " rel="nofollow">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...guys are full of shit&lt;/a&gt;
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All " rel="nofollow">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...guys are full of shit&lt;/a&gt;
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All " rel="nofollow">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...guys are full of shit&lt;/a&gt;
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See " rel="nofollow">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...the difference between different people&lt;/a&gt;
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See " rel="nofollow">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...the difference between different people&lt;/a&gt;
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See " rel="nofollow">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...the difference between different people&lt;/a&gt;
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See " rel="nofollow">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...the difference between different people&lt;/a&gt;
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See " rel="nofollow">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...the difference between different people&lt;/a&gt;
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..&lt;a href="<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s..." rel="nofollow"><a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See " rel="nofollow">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...the difference between different people&lt;/a&gt;
  • joshuaongys · 1 year ago
    to me lar... the 1st 2 pics shows like they are couples and the last 2 pics are just fine for me as in they are jz friends... sometimes i have GIRL-frens leaning on me too as well as i leaning on their shoulders.. saje/really tired.. and we're quite close thats it.. haha
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    You think so? Yeah I know some friends like to lean on one another, but doesn't it sometimes feel a bit odd? I mean call me old fashion, but I like leaning / snuggling to my partner... not snuggle leaning on my friend.
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Hey Anicia, don't worry about the long comment hehe, I enjoy hearing other peoples thoughts. I'm also open with hugging people, cause it's the easiest way to open up and show friendliness to another, but depends who I'm hugging of course. It does seem vague doens't it when we try to look at the Asian culture and then question why is it alright when western people do it. I remember one friend, an American, of mine was wishing me off after i sent him back and he gave me a peck on both cheeks. On one hand felt awkward cause i don't get that with asian dudes. The first thing he said was "Oh yeah I forgot different country.." Lol... it was quite funny. But i'm open with a kiss on the cheek. ^_^ Don't think i'd be crazy about it though if my bf, kissed a girl friend of his on her cheek... Hmm hypocrisy much? Depends on situations and context eh?
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay. pamsongs last blog post..<a href="http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-...rel="nofollow">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before ">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before ">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before " target="_blank">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before " target="_blank">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before " target="_blank">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before " target="_blank">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.


    pamsongs last blog post..<a href="Before " target="_blank">http://tinkitalks.blogspot.com/2008/05/before-it-dims.html">Before It Dims
  • Albert · 1 year ago
    Erm... I think... if the boy and girl are totally OK, feeling good and safe, without hurting each other, and also with respect, I certainly don't see a problem. By all means go for it. Be it holding hands, hugging and so on... But please not so over-touchy la. I think this could offend the girls. But have to say traditional Asian culture (particularly here in Malaysia) consider it a taboo. That depends on what they think la. Even me would really love to have a girl leaning on my shoulder... no offense... :D
  • Albert · 1 year ago
    Erm... I think... if the boy and girl are totally OK, feeling good and safe, without hurting each other, and also with respect, I certainly don't see a problem. By all means go for it. Be it holding hands, hugging and so on...


    But please not so over-touchy la. I think this could offend the girls.



    But have to say traditional Asian culture (particularly here in Malaysia) consider it a taboo. That depends on what they think la.



    Even me would really love to have a girl leaning on my shoulder... no offense... :D
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders). Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met. Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have...rel="nofollow">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I ">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I ">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I " target="_blank">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I " target="_blank">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I " target="_blank">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I " target="_blank">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).


    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.



    Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I " target="_blank">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont. Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall...rel="nofollow">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All ">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All ">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All " target="_blank">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All " target="_blank">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All " target="_blank">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All " target="_blank">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.


    Ping Pings last blog post..<a href="Bwahahahaha..All " target="_blank">http://ahbu74.blogspot.com/2008/05/bwahahahahaall-guys-are-full-of-shit.html">Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other. So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something. But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view of this situation. I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind. Hugging is okay , leaning is okay . but somehow , holding hand it depend on people. Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought. I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha Anicias last blog post..<a href="http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/s...rel="nofollow">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See ">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See ">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.


    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.

    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view

    of this situation.



    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.



    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .

    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.

    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.



    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha



    Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
  • joshuaongys · 1 year ago
    to me lar... the 1st 2 pics shows like they are couples and the last 2 pics are just fine for me as in they are jz friends... sometimes i have GIRL-frens leaning on me too as well as i leaning on their shoulders.. saje/really tired.. and we're quite close thats it.. haha
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    You think so? Yeah I know some friends like to lean on one another, but doesn't it sometimes feel a bit odd? I mean call me old fashion, but I like leaning / snuggling to my partner... not snuggle leaning on my friend.
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    I don't think so too...
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Heya Albert, lol, no surprise for a guy wanting a girl to lean on their shoulder. But true, the two people should now what they are doing, hence whatever it is they are still allowing room for respect to the other. That's the whole reason why there is no extreme touchy touchy right? :P To give some sort of difference between the bf and normal guy friends.
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Here's another thing.. girls doing it is usually seen as fine. Is it because we are of the same gender. Be it tired or whatever girls are just more attune to being at ease with one another. I think same goes for guys like when they whack one another on the field after a game or something. ... I find it hard to differentiate between a friendly hug and a best friend hug. It's even worse when you know the two friends, have a thing for one another when they shouldn't be. Then things get a bit fishy, like why are you hugging her....but could work for two singles. Boundaries people. :)
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Here's another thing.. girls doing it is usually seen as fine. Is it because we are of the same gender. Be it tired or whatever girls are just more attune to being at ease with one another. I think same goes for guys like when they whack one another on the field after a game or something.


    ... I find it hard to differentiate between a friendly hug and a best friend hug. It's even worse when you know the two friends, have a thing for one another when they shouldn't be. Then things get a bit fishy, like why are you hugging her....but could work for two singles. Boundaries people. :)
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Hey Ping Ping spot on. Thing about the whole touchy topic between the genders is that obviously opposites attract. Where's the line drawn when we touch one another.
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Hey Anicia, don't worry about the long comment hehe, I enjoy hearing other peoples thoughts. I'm also open with hugging people, cause it's the easiest way to open up and show friendliness to another, but depends who I'm hugging of course. It does seem vague doens't it when we try to look at the Asian culture and then question why is it alright when western people do it. I remember one friend, an American, of mine was wishing me off after i sent him back and he gave me a peck on both cheeks. On one hand felt awkward cause i don't get that with asian dudes. The first thing he said was "Oh yeah I forgot different country.." Lol... it was quite funny. But i'm open with a kiss on the cheek. ^_^ Don't think i'd be crazy about it though if my bf, kissed a girl friend of his on her cheek... Hmm hypocrisy much? Depends on situations and context eh?
  • aronil · 1 year ago
    Hey Anicia,
    don't worry about the long comment hehe, I enjoy hearing other peoples thoughts. I'm also open with hugging people, cause it's the easiest way to open up and show friendliness to another, but depends who I'm hugging of course.



    It does seem vague doens't it when we try to look at the Asian culture and then question why is it alright when western people do it. I remember one friend, an American, of mine was wishing me off after i sent him back and he gave me a peck on both cheeks. On one hand felt awkward cause i don't get that with asian dudes. The first thing he said was "Oh yeah I forgot different country.." Lol... it was quite funny. But i'm open with a kiss on the cheek. ^_^



    Don't think i'd be crazy about it though if my bf, kissed a girl friend of his on her cheek... Hmm hypocrisy much? Depends on situations and context eh?
  • pamsong · 1 year ago
    No, it's not okay.

    pamsongs last blog post..Before It Dims
  • Albert · 1 year ago
    Erm... I think... if the boy and girl are totally OK, feeling good and safe, without hurting each other, and also with respect, I certainly don't see a problem. By all means go for it. Be it holding hands, hugging and so on...

    But please not so over-touchy la. I think this could offend the girls.

    But have to say traditional Asian culture (particularly here in Malaysia) consider it a taboo. That depends on what they think la.

    Even me would really love to have a girl leaning on my shoulder... no offense... :D
  • Chee Hoe · 1 year ago
    The 3rd picture can be just among friends. I am sure many girls do it among themselves as well when they are really tired right? (IE leaning on another friends shoulders).

    Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.

    Chee Hoes last blog post..I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
  • Ping Ping · 1 year ago
    salah la..where can girls and guys who tak ada feelings to one another do that? I dunno la, but I wont.

    Ping Pings last blog post..Bwahahahaha..All guys are full of shit
  • Anicia · 1 year ago
    In western point of view , is a way to respect and connect with people. Even when i come to australia , in movie and drama it seem normal for people to hug each other when they see each other.

    So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
    But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
    of this situation.

    I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.

    Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
    but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
    Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.

    I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha

    Anicias last blog post..See the difference between different people
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    I don't think so too...
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    Heya Albert, lol, no surprise for a guy wanting a girl to lean on their shoulder. But true, the two people should now what they are doing, hence whatever it is they are still allowing room for respect to the other. That's the whole reason why there is no extreme touchy touchy right? :P To give some sort of difference between the bf and normal guy friends.
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    Here's another thing.. girls doing it is usually seen as fine. Is it because we are of the same gender. Be it tired or whatever girls are just more attune to being at ease with one another. I think same goes for guys like when they whack one another on the field after a game or something.

    ... I find it hard to differentiate between a friendly hug and a best friend hug. It's even worse when you know the two friends, have a thing for one another when they shouldn't be. Then things get a bit fishy, like why are you hugging her....but could work for two singles. Boundaries people. :)
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    Hey Ping Ping spot on. Thing about the whole touchy topic between the genders is that obviously opposites attract. Where's the line drawn when we touch one another.
  • Linora Low · 1 year ago
    Hey Anicia,
    don't worry about the long comment hehe, I enjoy hearing other peoples thoughts. I'm also open with hugging people, cause it's the easiest way to open up and show friendliness to another, but depends who I'm hugging of course.

    It does seem vague doens't it when we try to look at the Asian culture and then question why is it alright when western people do it. I remember one friend, an American, of mine was wishing me off after i sent him back and he gave me a peck on both cheeks. On one hand felt awkward cause i don't get that with asian dudes. The first thing he said was "Oh yeah I forgot different country.." Lol... it was quite funny. But i'm open with a kiss on the cheek. ^_^

    Don't think i'd be crazy about it though if my bf, kissed a girl friend of his on her cheek... Hmm hypocrisy much? Depends on situations and context eh?
  • Marc · 1 year ago
    Interesting and catchy title. Anyway do u exchange links?