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Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
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Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What ">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
Nicholas.Cs last blog post..<a href="What " target="_blank">http://www.invertedn.com/blog/?p=298">What do we mean to each other?
Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
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Lets not even go as far as being mushy, for instance, i grew up under the impression that shaking hands and introducing yourself to new people you meet, regardless of race, creed or gender, is normal friendly behaviour.
Shocking it was to me when i recently learnt that to a sizeable segment of our Malaysian society, such behaviour is actually indecent.
Contrast this of course to the friends who we peck on the cheek when we meet, in this very same Malaysian society no less, and I think the only conclusion one can come to is that it's all a matter of what we individually find comfortable as applied to ourselves as well as others.
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But please not so over-touchy la. I think this could offend the girls.
But have to say traditional Asian culture (particularly here in Malaysia) consider it a taboo. That depends on what they think la.
Even me would really love to have a girl leaning on my shoulder... no offense... :D
Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
Chee Hoes last blog post..<a href="I " target="_blank">http://adrianhoo.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-dont-have-friends-they-are-all-dead.html">I Don't Have Friends, They Are All DEAD!!
Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
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So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..<a href="See ">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..<a href="See " target="_blank">http://tributetoasillygirl.blogspot.com/2008/05/see-difference-between-different-people.html">See the difference between different people
... I find it hard to differentiate between a friendly hug and a best friend hug. It's even worse when you know the two friends, have a thing for one another when they shouldn't be. Then things get a bit fishy, like why are you hugging her....but could work for two singles. Boundaries people. :)
don't worry about the long comment hehe, I enjoy hearing other peoples thoughts. I'm also open with hugging people, cause it's the easiest way to open up and show friendliness to another, but depends who I'm hugging of course.
It does seem vague doens't it when we try to look at the Asian culture and then question why is it alright when western people do it. I remember one friend, an American, of mine was wishing me off after i sent him back and he gave me a peck on both cheeks. On one hand felt awkward cause i don't get that with asian dudes. The first thing he said was "Oh yeah I forgot different country.." Lol... it was quite funny. But i'm open with a kiss on the cheek. ^_^
Don't think i'd be crazy about it though if my bf, kissed a girl friend of his on her cheek... Hmm hypocrisy much? Depends on situations and context eh?
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But please not so over-touchy la. I think this could offend the girls.
But have to say traditional Asian culture (particularly here in Malaysia) consider it a taboo. That depends on what they think la.
Even me would really love to have a girl leaning on my shoulder... no offense... :D
Ultimately, I do think that one can differentiate a friendly hug and something more intimate based on body language. Of course this is mainly among really close friends. I don't mind hugging or even kissing the cheeks of my close friends but i would not do that on someone I just met.
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So once i come to australia , i admit that i dont have much western friend , but if i see some of my friend hugging mean nothing. It mean a hello.or something.
But if you say , holding hand. I have a friend , she had this good guy friend and they were like holding hand when they went for shopping. So i asked my friend are you guys couple . She say no , i just treat him like little brother. But the guy is exactly the same height and look older. How can just brother....because they guy seem to enjoyed it and potray as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship but the girl seem to have a different view
of this situation.
I would say , it always depend on what situation and if you know what does it mean and is clear about it it would be a different result that you potray in your mind.
Hugging is okay , leaning is okay .
but somehow , holding hand it depend on people.
Thus ,i believe that different people had different thought.
I agree with the asian culture but once u blend the asian and western together ...it seem vague. hehe ..sorry for the long comment .haha
Anicias last blog post..See the difference between different people
... I find it hard to differentiate between a friendly hug and a best friend hug. It's even worse when you know the two friends, have a thing for one another when they shouldn't be. Then things get a bit fishy, like why are you hugging her....but could work for two singles. Boundaries people. :)
don't worry about the long comment hehe, I enjoy hearing other peoples thoughts. I'm also open with hugging people, cause it's the easiest way to open up and show friendliness to another, but depends who I'm hugging of course.
It does seem vague doens't it when we try to look at the Asian culture and then question why is it alright when western people do it. I remember one friend, an American, of mine was wishing me off after i sent him back and he gave me a peck on both cheeks. On one hand felt awkward cause i don't get that with asian dudes. The first thing he said was "Oh yeah I forgot different country.." Lol... it was quite funny. But i'm open with a kiss on the cheek. ^_^
Don't think i'd be crazy about it though if my bf, kissed a girl friend of his on her cheek... Hmm hypocrisy much? Depends on situations and context eh?